what community organizations have to say…
Cheryl Mitchell, Chief Program Officer of Bowery Mission
“Alexandra Vassilaros is a beloved part of our community. Since 2012 her writing workshops have created a tender and healing path into community for the women of The Bowery Mission. With exceptional insight and care, Alexandra creates a safe place for each woman to give voice to her unique story.”
Sensei Robert Chodo Campbell, Co-Founder of The New York Zen Center for Contemplative Care
"The journey towards healing can be complex and heartbreaking. Alexandra has a unique gift. She is able to meet each person where they are in their sorrow and uncertainty. Because of her gifts as a writer and her personal experience of loss she is able to lead participants with compassion. I have personally attended Alexandra’s workshop and was so moved by the group’s willingness to trust her as well as the process that she brings to this important work helping people discover the strength and resilience to continue on their journey of recovery.”
Vivian Williams-Kurutz, Founder and Executive Director of Harlem Wellness Center
"Alexandra's Writing for Racial Healing workshop is what the world needs to move us toward constructive individual and collective examination and healing in these challenging times. Gently and skillfully, Alexandra shepherded our group through a supportive space that allowed us to listen deeply, silence our critical voice, and free ourselves to write and share our deepest truths. By opening our hearts and offering our stories to one another, we connected more authentically as a group and left the workshop taking a piece of each other with us in the very best way."
Jill Kearney, Founder and Executive Director of ArtYard
“Alexandra’s virtual Make Meaning Workshop at ArtYard embodied our mission in every way. Her gentle, wise and nuanced approach made all participants feel seen and held. The process invited written responses to prompts that allowed each participant to process grief or challenges without being asked to share particulars or feel exposed. I heard from numerous participants that it was a profound experience that created a longed for compassionate community in which disparate backgrounds melted away. Friendships were forged, and artistic collaborations ensued. We look forward to bringing Alexandra back to ArtYard. "
what workshop participants have to say…
Niki, workshop participant
"Having the experience of sharing and receiving unfiltered truths with strangers was profound. It was both invigorating and relieving. Carrying around the heaviness without an outlet can be exhausting. Being able to share the weight through genuine connection and expression has been invaluable — a rare yet simple privilege. It has allowed me to see my pain not as a burden I must carry, but a rock on which I can stand to see greater heights.”
Gabriela, workshop participant
“It was a gift of human beauty, of love, of grief, of showing me how wonderful we are as humans, beautiful, caring as we love, as we suffer, as we share our pain. We are courageous without limits.We are love without limits. We are grief without limits. Most of all we are humans and thank you for that. Gracias for letting me feel human.”
Ramona, workshop participant
“This workshop allowed me to access memories and experiences that are hard for me to face completely, and, without the group's support, might choose to avoid. Even as I want to remember everything, I usually can't let myself ‘go there.’ Your group motivated me to do that–and I am grateful for that because even as it hurts, I know I will be glad I did it in the long run."
Mike, workshop participant
“The writing workshop was a really wonderful experience; so moving, and gut-wrenching, and exhilarating, and powerful, and comforting.”
Jill, workshop participant
“When I arrived, I hoped for rules and no judgment, but venturing well beyond that, you gave us scaffolding, inspiration, a springboard and a cushioned landing for thoughts and feelings.”
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Jane B, workshop participant
“I just wanted to thank you again for this wonderful workshop. The community was a great gift, as was the practice of writing uninhibited. The experience helped me recuperate some spark of meaning and purpose -- even spirit -- from something that had only been unbearable and senseless. I can't tell you how much better I feel now than I did when we started -- some of it is time, I think, but much of it is the thinking, writing, and (especially) listening I was able to do in the workshop. Thank you for creating that space and opportunity.”
"You are so generous with your compassion for all of us no matter how we express ourselves and model a presence of acceptance that encourages all of us to dive deeply into those places within ourselves that need come up into the shallows."
“We are washed clean by the riveting honesty that manages to tumble, full force from each of us. Having participated in and taught for some 30 + years within my therapy practice. I say this in deep humility, I have sometimes stumbled or walked deliberately into something truly remarkable, but never more remarkable than this group that has gathered around you.”
"Thank you for birthing a heart-wrenchingly meaningful and entirely unforgettable workshop! And you did it with such compassion and warmth.”